How Underconfidence Overpowers Us

If I had to point out one of the main problems with our society, I'd direct people's attention to any of the charity organizations that are common today. Why? Because I believe they represent an accurate, institutionalized model of the kind of behaviour that has taken over the political fabric of our society.

UnderconfidenceCharity organizations are made out of people who are typically insecure and underconfident in themselves. Therefore they feel good whenever they help others, especially people worse off than themselves, because it makes them feel needed, important and special. While charity might seem like a fancy act, it rarely solves any problems (make a trip to Africa) - but most importantly, it easily becomes a tool for these neurotic people to overpower smart and confident people.

To demonstrate this, let me give you an example. Imagine you're an intelligent, experienced boss at a company. Say you need to hire new people for an upcoming project. Most likely you'd pick only the best; class A people. Now, say you were a "normal" - a class B individual; not very bright but not outright dumb. Here you'd probably hire class C people. Why? Besides having a mediocre judgement, you'd feel good by bossing around with someone less intelligent than yourself, which would make up for your own shortcomings. Idiots promote idiots to power. The further down you go on the intellectual and intelligence scale, the fewer the merits will be.

The danger here lies in the psychological behaviour of most underconfident people: they don't see the world in positive aspects and look for brilliance, certainty and victory. The only way they feel happy is by promoting people below them to their own level or attacking people above them and forcing them to conform to a lower common denominator. It's a vicious cycle that's struck most of our society. It's in politics, where we mock all intelligent dissidents, it's in culture, where we've lost the collective will to achieve something positive together, and it's a chronic disease that inflicts our spirit.

Permanent underconfidence is a resignation before life and a lack of belief in our abilities, talents and features. People who should know better are today crippled by this modern downfall. It might even struck otherwise healthy and intelligent individuals, who realize that the underconfident segment of our population has taken over and will drive us into more world wars and ecological disasters, before we learn the hard lesson. It's a tough realization to make for anyone that's even remotely awake in our society of brainnumb sleepwalkers.

Rise above

But there is hope. We can rise above this crowd behaviour. The way to do this is to tie personal self-confidence with positive abilities. Do what you're good at and your successes, even if small in the beginning, will make you feel more powerful and your life more meaningful. Likewise, look at the world from a constructive, heroic perspective: neither of us are determined to fail. We can succeed with who we are and what we've got here and now. That's how the ancients dealt with situations like these and we can do the same. We must purge all fatalism and underconfidence from our societal fabric - and this change, as all true change, starts within ourselves. Change your life!

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The truth can set you free and can also change your life!

Hi Alex,
I am a 52 year old student who last year went back to school for my BBA in Business Management/with a concentration in Medical Management. I haven't been in a classroom, except my children and grandchildren in a lot of years. One reason is because when I would start back to school something would happen and I would have to drop ont, I will give you a few examples; my husband would quit his job and that would put me under so much stress that I would end up in the Hospital, or I would pass the entrance exam and before I could walk through the door my husband would nip it in the bud before I got started. I became an EMT since he was making it impossible to furthur my education, and when I completed and was a volunteer at the local rescue squad, he gave me a hard time about the time I was spending away from the family.

I came to the conclusion I would never be able to go back and complete my degree. I have been disabled since 2001, which was brought on by me working my job, working on the side at a second job, trying to stay afloat because her was always quiting his job because "He was teaching me a lesson." I was taking care of a friend that was dying year before last and had helped her take care of her husband ealier in the year. They both passed away within 6 months of each other. While I was taking care of my dying friend he was taking care of his x-girlfriend after 11 years of mariage, he was caught and we split up.

I had lost all confidence that I could or would ever get to do what I am doing today. I was afraid that I would not be smart enough, or something else would stop me. I decided to give it a try anyway, since then I have had to move in with my Mother who is sick, and I lost our home, that he left me behind 3 payment and did not let me know.

I was very underconfident about my abilities anymore, but to my surprise I have a 4.0 average and have been on the dean's and honor's list for all of this year, before that I was on the honor role. So believe me I know what underconfidence can do to a person. I had became that type of person and I have never been that way, before. I became disabled I worked in management, My last 2 jobs was second in command at a large car dealership as Office Manager and Comptroller, I also was backup Finance Manager. Then I left there I went to work for believe it or not Pizza Hut. I had my own store in less than a year, so I was a very confident woman. I had 2 children but raised 6 and most of their life I was by myself, so I've always stressed the importance of a good education.

Suffice to say my children are very proud of me, and I am amazed everyday that at 52, I still have the ability to learn. So if the chain of events had not happened to me I might not be in school, so the truth did set me free. The truth that I finally seen what my husband was all about, and that I could go on to be better without him than with him and that is a sad thing to say but, it is the truth.

So believe me when I say the truth can set you free, and your article is also very true, because I am now changing my life and it is for the better. I will graduate next year and I will finally get to walk down that isle to get my diploma.

Thank you,
Kathy

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