When approaching married women in many tribal cultures about sex for pleasure, they generally reply with confusion. They don't understand the concept at all. For them, life has a goal, and it includes family, and tribe -- context. In that outlook, sex is a function toward the end of a family, and not something that is done without context for individual pleasure alone.

As a result, tribal women are not obsessed with sex as a means of achieving power like Western women are. In turn, family units are more stable. Marriages stay together. People are united in marriage as they are in community, around a goal. When they turn their back on that goal, and start looking only toward their own pleasure, they become sociopathic or destructive to society, albeit in passive, non-violent ways.

In the West, women are obsessed with sex and orgasm. The majority of sex toys are female-oriented. Women have extramarital relationships at an alarming rate, seeking that hunky knight Hollywood has promised them that will make all their fairy tale dreams come true. Many women marry men who can financially support them but not sexually please them. Their husbands are obligated to fill their material needs, while they find other men to fulfill their sexual needs.

Media that celebrates men getting drunk and fornicating recklessly is condemned as bawdy and low brow (Meatballs, Porky's). Yet media portraying women in the same light is deemed as intellectual and enlightening (Sex in the City). The women portrayed in Sex in the City are not healthy role models. They are cosmopolitan materialists living lives devoid of meaning beyond their next physical gratification: a new pair of shoes, another martini, or their next sexual companion. Women pattern their lives after these television women, because despite knowing that TV is fantasy, they see it as a real setting and want to emulate its success.

A common attitude amongst modern women in the West is that the pill is liberation. The reality is that the pill further subjugates women to men by giving them more incentive to make themselves sexually available to emotionally unavailable men. It is alarming how few women realize this. "Well, I know he doesn't care for me emotionally, but at least I won't be getting pregnant!" How is throwaway sex a moral or a good decision? How does this help women as a gender?

Not surprisingly, the result of this unhealthy behavior is unhappy women who become bitter and fight amongst themselves while voluntarily turning themselves into sex objects. They end up single in their 40s and 50s, then alone for the rest of their lives, having missed out on actual love, family, children and a connection to their community. In the name of freedom, they are isolated.

Feminists champion women like Gerri Santoro. Santoro left an allegedly abusive marriage and proceeded into a sexual relationship with a married man. After becoming pregnant with his child, she became paranoid about her husband and ended up dying to a botched abortion. How is this a role model? What was her rush to enter a sexual relationship with a married man while she was still in an allegedly abusive marriage herself? Were those brief moments of sexual pleasure worth ending up dead on a motel room floor?

This is a complete deconstruction of marriage and the family unit. Once again, we see the materialism and self obsession of the West decaying society and leading to complete moral bankruptcy. With the sex "wagging the dog" and becoming the reason for relationships, instead of a way to strengthen those relationships, the divorce rate has skyrocketed -- as has the rate of those never marrying. Men no longer need to marry to get sexual satisfaction and, given that women are likely to be unfaithful and the courts will award them money in a divorce, men are at a massive disadvantage when they marry.

Our dogma of equality helps create this situation. We think that if a group is equal, it will have no reason to fight, because we see people as being as craven as we fear we are -- if they see money, they'll take it, without thinking through the consequences -- we surmise. Using this negative vision of humanity, we decide to make things equal, and since we can't raise the lower, we lower the higher. So if men are perceived as being stronger and richer, we take it out on them and claim we're empowering women, not realizing that we're lowering the bar for both genders and eliminating the power of some of the best among them.

Men and women are polarizing at an alarming rate. No longer do we live complementary lives, but competetive ones. This is toxic and unhealthy for us all. Women do not choose men based on who will give them the strongest and most intelligent children, they choose men based on how many shiny objects they can purchase them.

With the advances in birth control, more and more women are choosing not to have children in Western culture. Women are choosing to remain single and child free all their lives, so they focus solely on their self obsession. This has created a surplus of men seeking mates, which further strains marriages and families. Men now must fiercely compete to find worthy women to create families with.

Even after marriage and children, the constant Sword of Damocles that their wives can leave them at any moment in their pursuit of pleasure hangs over their heads. This further leads to bitterness and resentment towards women, which then causes women to become more bitter themselves. Women resent men causing men to resent women causing women to resent men, ad infinitum. It is a vicious circle.

The only way to break this cycle is to exit it completely. Let's return to the roots of love, marriage, and family. Let's acknowledge that gluttonous sex is no different than gluttonous eating or any other form of gluttony. It is unhealthy and only leads to problems. Let's love our spouses and children, not obsess over the arbitrary trappings of money. Let's engage in more meaningful activities, so we don't obsess over self gratification such as casual sex. Let's heal and let the West endure. And let's spread the word -- healthy behavior makes us happier than those who chase only their own pleasure.