Maintaining Mental Health
Maintaining perfect sanity in our time of neuroticism and cognitive
dissonance can be hard. Gifted individuals especially will often feel
powerless and depressed by the magnitude of irrationality and
shallowness they face every day, which can lead to serious full-scale
depression. However, this is not the only cause of ill mental balance.
Bad relationships and abuse also count. These things tend to run together
accumulating to an ill climax.
The first and most important aspect of obtaining a better mental view
is to build up a strong sense of control and achievement. The key is
organization, and having everything in your life in its proper place.
This builds character and boosts confidence.
Things which will affect your mental balance the most:
- Work
Real physical work can be highly liberating and immersing in that it
wears out the body, keeps the mind still, and afterwards gives a great
sensation of having done something useful. Unfortunately, our society
tends to take the direction of less and less physical effort. This has
had enormous consequences for "developed" world populations and,
consequently, the opportunities for honourable physical labour (i.e:
work in the field) are really scarce.
Work/careers are very important to individuals, as they can provide
identity, material sustenance, and involvement with our community.
Therefore, it makes sense to think of our jobs as honourable
commitments, and we should see that they fulfil the same high standards as we have
for other activities. Your work should not put your integrity at risk
(phone advertising), or be completely useless (flipping burgers). Use
poor jobs only as temporary solutions.
- Exercise
Adequate physical activity is essential for our bodies to stay rooted
in this world of fluctuating resistance. Those in poor physical shape
can expect to be viewed in a less flattering light than if they had
looked after their condition. It is a pre-programmed feature in humans
to recognize health and vigour.
Besides being a genuinely wise choice for health and well-being, losing
extra pounds and gaining some visible muscle will also provide you with a
giant boost in self-confidence.
For more information please refer to our guide to physical exercise.
- Sleep
This is another component which you can't afford to neglect. Many
studies have shown that sleep strongly affects both our immune system
and mental abilities. Getting the right dose of sleep will wake you up
full of energy and enthusiasm for a new day of brilliant possibilities.
If you suffer from insomnia, don't use pills to cover it. These don't
work since they don't medicate the real cause behind sleeplessness.
Instead, try increasing daily exercise and breaking any bad habits
which may make it hard to fall asleep. A poor diet, particularly if
meal times fluctuate or if you eat late, can have drastic effects on
quality of sleep. A 3 hour window before bedtime is necessary for
proper digestion, and caffeinated products should be avoided after
midday. Irregular sleeping patterns and lack of sunlight (light therapy
lamps are available for those of you forced to work night shifts or in
dark environments) also have negative impacts on quality of sleep.
- Diet
Eat healthy, all-round, local and organic. Avoid GM stuff and
industrialized meat: they are both suspicious in their actual content
and do not give proper respect for the organism's offer of life. Don't
buy into what the so-called experts tell you about the latest intake
and dietary recommendations. Your ancestors fared very well on their
traditional diets, thus it must be valid now too.
Eating at regular times also keeps your energy levels steady and
discourages snacking.
- Friends
Humans are social animals, therefore we need social interaction for
mental well-being. Having a handful of trustworthy friends and good
family relations is highly beneficial, since it may even help you land the right job!
True friends are a rare commodity, far more valuable than any mineral
dug up from soil and stone, especially in a time of urgent need. Don't
lose them!
- Entertainment
You will eventually face a time when you want to relax, but don't let
this be an excuse to simply zone out (TV) or consume vapid, trendy
products (again, TV does not help). Entertainment can be sought from
quality art, hobbies and traditional activities such as folk music and
folklore.
- Everyday Routines
Although these only take up a small portion of our daily lives, they
still have an enormous impact. These can be things such as brushing
your teeth, picking up after yourself, and doing laundry.
Keeping these small routines in check can make you feel in control of
your life.
Things you should avoid:
- Masturbation
The libido is one of the main energy drives in the human body; don't
exhaust it! If you feel the necessity to fap here and there, it's OK,
but chronic (daily) masturbation consumes much bodily protein and numbs
the senses.
Procrastination
This is a major modern disease. Too many temptations have driven us to
avoid fulfilling our duty. It may not even be the lack of
responsibility, but simply not feeling confident or satiated with the
idea of getting pressing matters completed.
If this has become a habit for you, getting rid of it may prove extremely
difficult. If you succeed, it will raise your willpower and drive to
have errands done as soon as possible. The central problem of
procrastination is usually lack of organization and a belief that our
duties take time from more pleasurable activities. To counter this,
remind yourself of the immediate logical benefits of completing the
deed, the long-term benefits, and you will see that putting things off
is not really a reasonable option.
Setting Unrealistic Goals
If you decide to accomplish something but set the standard too high,
there is a good chance that you will lose control, which leads to a
massive sense of disappointment and guilt. This can only be cured by an
honest acknowledgement of weakness, and then restructuring your
commitments and pacing yourself with the more challenging projects.
There are two correct methods to counter self-destructive
urges:
A - Consciously tell
yourself that if you succeed in x, you will receive reward y, which is
something you crave, after a certain period. This way your brain will
become accustomed to the thought of receiving something good after you
have resisted temptation.
B - Let the
sensation pass. Acknowledge that the world around you is in flux, and as
such, even these overwhelming feelings are transitory by their very
nature. Don't resist - just calm down and listen to your body. Breath
deep and relax. After having done this for a while you will find that
the urge is still there, but weakened. Now, find something else -
something more constructive - to focus on.
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