The home is your sanctuary. This is where you go to rest, heal and relax after having made it through another work day. At least this is how it used to be, until people began to intellectualize private life with ideology. Now there is a whole army of feminists who demand every aspect of house work to be organized around ideological principles.

I have in the past, and will continue to reject any woman who wants to divide up all housework equally according to some scheme, ideological or not. The reason why is not really ideological but practical: I simply don't have the energy nor the time to complicate the way I live and work at home. I have more important things to worry about than how many times I've made the dishes, if I vacuum cleaned this week or not, if it's my turn to buy groceries etc. I just do it when I feel it needs to be done, and don't expect anyone to bother or care.

People who want to enforce equality at home have too much free time on their hands, because if they managed children and a full time job, they'd realize that things simply need to be done. Ideally, both genders help out, each according to ability, not some holy principle set above reality. Even though it'd be amusing to see these women stuff their hands down drain pipes and drag out seven years of shit, it doesn't cut it for me. I don't care if they wanna do it or not. Someone has to, and if it's me or someone else who takes responsibility, I don't care.

Gender war is tearing us apart--we need to think in terms of compatibility, and in that game man and woman are rarely equal, but always collaborating for a higher goal: to make things work.