QuoteThe association between women's higher earnings and relationship dissolution was noticeably stronger among couples raising children. Female-breadwinner couples with children were 49% more likely to separate than male-breadwinner couples, whereas childless female-breadwinner couples were 23% more likely to separate than their male-breadwinning counterparts.
This finding suggests that balancing work and family responsibilities may place greater strain on relationships when women have higher earnings, perhaps because household responsibilities remain unevenly shared.
https://www.psypost.org/why-do-relationships-fail-when-women-earn-more-study-challenges-traditional-explanations/
QuoteHello [ ], adding your personal email here, since sadly, the mailinglist will
be/has ended, so just want to be sure you get my reply even if the mailinglist
is no more.
Quote>> But perhaps this experience was meant to be achieved consciously and
>> deliberately, and then to be integrated into our core being? So that if we
>> continuously "pound the drum of god" we'll eventually harm ourselves?
>
> It becomes talisman that prevents connection to reality, so I'd say yes.
Hmm... I wonder if there is any research into this?
QuoteDo you believe in stretching or eliminating the limitations of nature? Or is
your definition of "nature" so wide as to mean the utmost and final limits of
nature and physics, given what we can do with science?
Or do you view science and technology with suspicion?
QuoteHow do you decide who gets to breed and who does not? And what if your values
clash with someone else's values?
Quote>> Yes, there is something charming with how we torture ourselves with our ethics,
>> values, choices, and how we consciously choose to give, love, and so on.
>
> Again, who's "we?" People all over the world ... all 144,000 of them?
Most individuals.
Quote> It gets me when people project love on animals: "Oooh, Maxxy loves me!" No it
> doesn't. Maxxy is Pavloving on you, but he would throw you under the bus for a
> piece of ham. Most HINO-s (humans in name only) do the same. They "ham" each
> other. Only an actual Human can love, so protect these people at any cost. A
> smart mind once said "The stupid can't love." Yes, because they're like Maxxy.
Well, actually, it could be argued that humans do the same.
QuoteThe only thing we have to go on is the behaviour of animals and other humans. We cannot look into
their brains and feel what they feel. We only have indications and inferences.
But the good thing is that this is enough. We all have the right to our own
feelings, and if I "feel" that Maxxy the dog loves me, then that's alright.
Objectively, only actions, words, inferences, subjectively, that's where the
magic happens!
QuoteAhh... but I think this rests on a common misunderstanding of transhumanism.
There is nothing forcing in it. Everyone is free to use or not to use any
technology that exists, to prolong life, edit genes, upload themselves into an
AI, or what ever they enjoy. It's about pushing the limits, improving ourselves,
but ultimately, how to do that, which technology to embrace, which technology to
reject, that is up to each and every one of us.
QuoteAs soon as someone argues for forcing people to accept a certain technology,
then the label (in my opinion) "humanism" is out the window. That would be more
something along the lines of transauthoritarianism or transsocialism.
Quote>> Excellent! Then we are at least 2 misanthropes in the world!
>
> As a misanthrope humanist (palm to head, right?) I don't want any of these already-born humans to suffer. I just want them:
>
> - Far away from me and my walk of life.
> - Prevented from perpetuating poor quality of life and suffering (all over the world, because in high-tech era, the Globe becomes a nut).
>
> While they're here, I want them to be OK, but I do not think they should be
> prioritized over higher-minded humans, since that causes the largest amount of
> unnecessary waste and suffering - as those are the most stoic but also the
> most sensitive, creative and most likely producers of good.
Here I have more a feeling of indifference, coupled with a pinch of cynicism,
when it comes to the common man. You are a good woman!