Quote💔The top 5 toxic behaviors that females do during a separation.💔
I think it's important we talk about those things because there are guys out there constantly being wrecked emotionally and there are very few guides that exist to sort all of this out, thus leading people to feel isolated; they falsely think their situation is unique. In my experience, Homo Sapiens Femalus Separatus is a mode of the human species that is widespread. You'll see these tactics happening in pretty much every separation in some form or another.
1. Betray-then-demand.
The female will first commit an unforgivable act of betrayal - something like cheating, stealing, withholding or hiding the kids, renaming the kids - and then she will not only act like that betrayal deserves no reparation or apology, she will demand that you care about HER mental torment as she suffers from the mental distress resulting from HER own dishonest action.
Optimal response: "Get fucked, bitch." Limit emotional care until she fixes her mistake. Adopt the perspective that she has created a situation of extortion; she has violated one of your rights and she is now demanding the continuation of your obligations towards her, dangling the possibility of the continuation of the violation of your rights in front of your face. There can be no continued obligations without respect of rights. There can be no love under extortion.
Opening yourself to this kind of emotional blackmail will ruin your heart, because she will continue escalating the violations and demand more and more from you without giving back. A female on the loose must be repairing her mistake before you ever give a shit again. Be creative in the ways you tell her to go fuck herself in order to throw them off.
2. "I didn't mean it that way."
The separating female will commit serious slights and violations of the rules of the couple while also trying to absolve herself of responsibility by claiming that, though she has committed the violation, she did not INTEND to commit the violation. "It's not what you think." "I hid the kids from you and lied to you but I really WANT you to be involved in the kids' life." "I didn't KNOW it would turn that way." "I planted that sword in your chest but I didn't WANT you to die."
Optimal response: Impose a sense of moral judgment based purely in actions and not intentions. It doesn't matter if she doesn't know, doesn't think, doesn't intend, doesn't whatever she's claiming. All that matters is what she's DOING; if it acts like Femalus Separatus, then it most certainly is. This goes both for the direction of good and bad actions. Corrections are only valuable once accomplished, not the mere promise of them.
3. "If you cared more, perhaps I could undo my betrayal."
Here, the separating female is trying to extort emotional care without committing herself to the path of reparation of the couple. She is so greedy she wants to drain some more care and attention while you, the cuckhold of this arrangement, get nothing. She wants love on the way out. But in my experience, a woman on the way out is not going to be swayed by love. All that makes them return is a pillar of complete, righteous, masculine rejection.
Optimal response: "I do not provide emotional care or financial support under extortion." Do not let her get away with even the slightest immoral act toward you. Down the line, she will respect you more if she is ever to return.
4. The post-betrayal hypothetical.
Homo Sapiens Femalus Separatus will engage in hypotheticals in which she irremediably violates your rights and then expect you to come up with a loving response toward them. It takes the form of "Suppose I was to [mess your life up significantly in some deeply immoral way], and this led us to split, would you commit not to go sleep with that girl I hate?"
The fact that this tactic exists at all is a testament to the wicked sense of entitlement of females in general. As I've often written: they don't just want to wreck your life, they want to neuter you permanently. That's because females do not have the level of cognition required to understand that once they have broken the relationship, they have lost any control over their mate.
Optimal response: "If you break our relationship, I can do whatever I want, including fuck a million girls you hate, and in fact I'll do it."
5. The post-betrayal justification.
Here, the female tries to reconcile her cognitive dissonance over the fact that she has psychopathically executed a betrayal program against you, but she doesn't like to feel THAT evil. Therefore she will seek, in YOUR REACTION TO HER BETRAYAL, a justification for why she had to betray you. This generally takes the form of "Originally, when I [messed your life up significantly in some deeply immoral way], I didn't intend to break up with you, but now that I have seen how you reacted, I think it's better we part ways."
Optimal response: Do not respond. Ignore. She is trying to insert poisonous thoughts of regret while constructing a narrative of innocence for herself.
In the end, kindness will never help you fix a female that has decided she wants to separate from you. What the Optimal Responses above allow is
1. To protect yourself emotionally from the mental instability and wickedness of Femalus Separatus.
2. In the event that she was to come back, ensure that she will have gained respect for your upright stance in the process and that she will think twice before doing it again.
In more general terms, understand that Femalus Separatus is a dangerous organism to even interact with at a distance. Never look at them in the eyes, never listen to a single word of what they say.
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