QuoteBrendon Banfield allegedly logged into Fetlife.com — a BDSM and fantasy site — and created a fake profile posing as his wife, Christine, to seek a man to come to their Fairfax County home to carry out a twisted rape fantasy, the au pair detailed.

He allegedly dragged in Joseph Ryan, 39, who believed he was speaking with the wife, but was actually communicating with either Brendan or Magalhães, according to investigators, the outlet said.

Ryan was then allegedly invited to the Banfield home on Feb. 24, 2023, with a knife to play out the staged attack on Christine, as the husband and au pair hid nearby to carry out the murders, prosecutors said.

https://nypost.com/2025/08/27/us-news/cheating-husband-used-bdsm-site-to-recruit-unwitting-accomplice-in-wifes-murder-au-pair-says/

QuoteHow the Cabots' divorce will shake out is yet to be seen — but if Julia Cabot's divorce from the Rum mogul is any indication, it could turn ugly.

Her marriage termination to Andrew Cabot lasted two years, with Andrew Cabot saying in court documents that it was triggered by an "irretrievable breakdown" of their relationship — which Julia contested.

https://nypost.com/2025/09/06/us-news/coldplay-kiss-cam-mistress-kristin-cabot-files-for-divorce-from-husband-andrew-cabot/

Sounds like she cheated and blew up the marriage. No wonder he is nonchalant when it happened again.

QuoteIn 2018, Kentucky became the first state to pass a law making equally shared custody the default arrangement in divorces and separations. Four other states—Arkansas, West Virginia, Florida and Missouri—have since passed their own versions of Kentucky's custody bill. Around 20 more are considering or close to passing similar laws, according to an analysis by the National Parents Organization.

The law has become a model for other states, not least because Kentucky's divorce rate has plummeted. Between 2016 and 2023 it fell 25%, compared with a nationwide decline of 18%, according to an analysis by the National Center for Family & Marriage Research at Bowling Green State University.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/world/divorce-plunged-in-kentucky-equal-custody-for-fathers-is-a-big-reason-why/ar-AA1LXz6l

Quote"It is a catchy term for the basic idea that if you're in a situation where somebody is coming at you in an aggressive way, instead of matching that energy, you're going to respond in a calm, neutral tone and not have a lot of engagement"—basically, imagining yourself as an emotionless gray rock, the College of Arts & Sciences professor said.

https://phys.org/news/2025-09-qa-gray-trending.html

QuoteAlexis Von Yates, now 35, had pounced as she watched a horror movie with her stepson, who was visiting his dad in Ocala last July, her arrest warrant showed.

The since-fired nurse told the boy she was "horny" after not having "sex in two weeks" while "on her period" — leading him on to strip her and have sex, while his younger siblings slept in a nearby room.

The pair thought the boy's dad, Yates' lineman husband Frank, was working all night — but he walked in on them as they were having full sex, the affidavit noted.

https://nypost.com/2025/09/17/us-news/florida-nurse-alexis-von-yates-sentenced-to-2-years-prison-after-caught-having-sex-with-teen-stepson/

QuoteThree days before Mullins's death Stines gave a deposition in a civil case brought by Sabrina Adkins alleging women under house arrest were extorted for sexual favors in exchange for more lenient treatment. According to the complaint in that case, it all happened in Mullins's chambers. Adkins's attorney said "It's like they were running a brothel out of that courtroom."

Davis said she was aware of Mullins having sex with inmate, "That's kind of the thing that everybody in the county knows, but it was confirmed to me after working in the jail, especially after being invited to a party myself." It was Mullins himself tht Davis says invited her to a sex party, though she declined the invitation.

Adams continued, "It was consensual. But it was the thing that we were so young, and then they used it against us and to destroy our lives later." And keeping party about the sex parties was expected, "That was just a given," she said. "And, who would believe it anyway? Because the whole town was doing it. Nobody cares. They're all swingers. It's all a big party to them. It was just so normal."

https://abovethelaw.com/2025/08/slain-judge-allegedly-involved-in-nasty-and-sickening-sex-party-ring/

QuoteWe have documented proof that Conrad's then-wife, Ashley Luster, was actively working to keep him incarcerated for her own financial gain. While he was imprisoned, she illegally made herself the representative payee for his Social Security disability benefits, directing the funds to her own account after divorce proceedings had begun. Financial records further document how she systematically drained his bank accounts, maxed out his credit cards, and spent his monthly pension and disability payments.

https://rockenhaus.com/

QuoteIn 2022, Norma Risma, a woman in Serang City on Indonesia's Java island, exposed her husband and mother's affair in a TikTok video.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cwyd57w3n79o

QuoteU.S. adults are least likely to condone married men and women having an affair, human cloning and suicide.

https://news.gallup.com/poll/507230/fewer-say-sex-relations-morally-acceptable.aspx

QuoteSome people—often described as "asexual"—simply don't desire sex.

However, those who do but are unable to find suitable and willing partners may be vulnerable to poor mental health and loneliness, social embarrassment, and economic disadvantages (for example due to not cohabiting with a partner). People involved in online "incel" (involuntary celibate) cultures may even be at risk of radicalization.

These new findings align with those of an earlier study of "incel" posts on social media. It found they were more likely to originate from regions of the United States with relatively fewer women and higher income inequality.

https://phys.org/news/2025-09-people-dont-sex-genetic.html

Quote"People ask me, 'Do you forgive Ned for what he did,' " Ariel said in the episode. "And the answer is no. Absolutely not. How can you forgive somebody for lying to you. For cheating on you. No. F--- no."

"We are still friends, we have children together, we go on trips together," Ned revealed. "There is a spectrum of being together-not together. There's ways in which we're together, but the way that everyone wants to know, like, 'Are you still, like, and item? Are you still a couple?' No."

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/news/ned-fulmers-estranged-wife-ariel-says-she-has-absolutely-not-forgiven-him-for-cheating-scandal-that-blew-up-their-marriage/ar-AA1MKcmi?utm_source=shidchrist

Quote"An examination revealed the victim was a middle-aged white woman, likely between 30 and 50 years old, and petite in stature. The cause of death was blunt-force trauma to the head," Oregon State Police said. "Following her death, the body was dismembered. The remains were placed in several burlap sacks before being discarded in the river."

https://abcnews.go.com/US/oregon-police-recover-partial-remains-dismembered-woman-80/story?id=125886070

Quote💔The top 5 toxic behaviors that females do during a separation.💔

I think it's important we talk about those things because there are guys out there constantly being wrecked emotionally and there are very few guides that exist to sort all of this out, thus leading people to feel isolated; they falsely think their situation is unique. In my experience, Homo Sapiens Femalus Separatus is a mode of the human species that is widespread. You'll see these tactics happening in pretty much every separation in some form or another.

1. Betray-then-demand.

The female will first commit an unforgivable act of betrayal - something like cheating, stealing, withholding or hiding the kids, renaming the kids - and then she will not only act like that betrayal deserves no reparation or apology, she will demand that you care about HER mental torment as she suffers from the mental distress resulting from HER own dishonest action.

Optimal response: "Get fucked, bitch." Limit emotional care until she fixes her mistake. Adopt the perspective that she has created a situation of extortion; she has violated one of your rights and she is now demanding the continuation of your obligations towards her, dangling the possibility of the continuation of the violation of your rights in front of your face. There can be no continued obligations without respect of rights. There can be no love under extortion.

Opening yourself to this kind of emotional blackmail will ruin your heart, because she will continue escalating the violations and demand more and more from you without giving back. A female on the loose must be repairing her mistake before you ever give a shit again. Be creative in the ways you tell her to go fuck herself in order to throw them off.

2. "I didn't mean it that way."

The separating female will commit serious slights and violations of the rules of the couple while also trying to absolve herself of responsibility by claiming that, though she has committed the violation, she did not INTEND to commit the violation. "It's not what you think." "I hid the kids from you and lied to you but I really WANT you to be involved in the kids' life." "I didn't KNOW it would turn that way." "I planted that sword in your chest but I didn't WANT you to die."

Optimal response: Impose a sense of moral judgment based purely in actions and not intentions. It doesn't matter if she doesn't know, doesn't think, doesn't intend, doesn't whatever she's claiming. All that matters is what she's DOING; if it acts like Femalus Separatus, then it most certainly is. This goes both for the direction of good and bad actions. Corrections are only valuable once accomplished, not the mere promise of them.

3. "If you cared more, perhaps I could undo my betrayal."

Here, the separating female is trying to extort emotional care without committing herself to the path of reparation of the couple. She is so greedy she wants to drain some more care and attention while you, the cuckhold of this arrangement, get nothing. She wants love on the way out. But in my experience, a woman on the way out is not going to be swayed by love. All that makes them return is a pillar of complete, righteous, masculine rejection.

Optimal response: "I do not provide emotional care or financial support under extortion." Do not let her get away with even the slightest immoral act toward you. Down the line, she will respect you more if she is ever to return.

4. The post-betrayal hypothetical.

Homo Sapiens Femalus Separatus will engage in hypotheticals in which she irremediably violates your rights and then expect you to come up with a loving response toward them. It takes the form of "Suppose I was to [mess your life up significantly in some deeply immoral way], and this led us to split, would you commit not to go sleep with that girl I hate?"

The fact that this tactic exists at all is a testament to the wicked sense of entitlement of females in general. As I've often written: they don't just want to wreck your life, they want to neuter you permanently. That's because females do not have the level of cognition required to understand that once they have broken the relationship, they have lost any control over their mate.

Optimal response: "If you break our relationship, I can do whatever I want, including fuck a million girls you hate, and in fact I'll do it."

5. The post-betrayal justification.

Here, the female tries to reconcile her cognitive dissonance over the fact that she has psychopathically executed a betrayal program against you, but she doesn't like to feel THAT evil. Therefore she will seek, in YOUR REACTION TO HER BETRAYAL, a justification for why she had to betray you. This generally takes the form of "Originally, when I [messed your life up significantly in some deeply immoral way], I didn't intend to break up with you, but now that I have seen how you reacted, I think it's better we part ways."

Optimal response: Do not respond. Ignore. She is trying to insert poisonous thoughts of regret while constructing a narrative of innocence for herself.

In the end, kindness will never help you fix a female that has decided she wants to separate from you. What the Optimal Responses above allow is

1. To protect yourself emotionally from the mental instability and wickedness of Femalus Separatus.

2. In the event that she was to come back, ensure that she will have gained respect for your upright stance in the process and that she will think twice before doing it again.

In more general terms, understand that Femalus Separatus is a dangerous organism to even interact with at a distance. Never look at them in the eyes, never listen to a single word of what they say.

https://x.com/JFGariepy/status/1971416441082741184

QuoteA scorned husband set fire to a Virginia lawmaker for allegedly having an affair with his wife, a court has heard.

Shotsie Michael Buck-Hayes was arrested in July after allegedly pouring gasoline on Danville City Council member Lee Vogler inside his office and igniting him.

At a preliminary hearing on Tuesday, a Danville Police investigator said that Buck-Hayes told officers 'he set the person on fire who had an affair with his wife'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15149583/Scorned-husband-lawmaker-fire-affair-wife.html

QuoteBy the late 1990s, Sarah had remarried, and her third marriage eventually ended in divorce in 2018. Around that time, she became engaged to David Bragg in Minnesota. On May 9, 2018, Sarah shot and killed Bragg in his home. She told investigators that he fired at her first and that she returned fire. Douglas County prosecutors ruled the killing a justifiable act of self-defense at the time, according to FOX9 Minneapolis.

Sarah's fifth marriage was to Joseph Hartsfield, whom she wed in 2022. Friends and neighbors told Click2Houston that Joseph was unhappy in the marriage and had been planning to leave. On Jan. 7, 2023, Joseph was found unresponsive after a diabetic emergency.

Prosecutors allege Sarah injected him with excessive insulin and delayed calling 911. He died days later. The Harris County Medical Examiner ruled the cause of death as complications from toxic insulin exposure.

https://www.foxnews.com/us/texas-woman-history-5-marriages-faces-murder-trial-husbands-insulin-death